Emotional Intelligence…Self Control! Part #7 – Gordon D. Melville
The Long Bearded Guy ~ Gordon D. Melville
Let’s be honest, control of any sort is a complete illusion! If you have children or pets you know what I speak of! Controlling ANYTHING outside or what WE think or do is just not a real thing. This is especially true when it comes to emotional intelligence. If we can’t control ‘self’ in an emotional intelligence space, how can we possibly expect to be able to recognize it in others? It starts with choosing to work on self, that generates and builds our awareness and habits around our own emotional intelligence in day to day life. Typically we don’t want to work on self, because its hard. Well, life is hard! So at least get a benefit from the pain!
This week come and dig deep with Gordon D Melville, The Long Bearded Guy & King of EQ as he admonishes us to pay attention to the things in our lives we CAN control, namely ourselves! Simple but rarely easy, mostly hard, painful, messy & requiring 100% transparency & honesty with our largest critic…ourselves! Bring your journal & a friend & let’s courageously set ourselves outside our comfort zones & intentionally grow! Let’s get after it!
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Gordon is Founder and Chief Catalyst Strategist Guide at JEWIL International, he is the host of ‘The Long Bearded Guy’ digital radio show, podcast and tv show, an elite high performance ‘Mindset mentor’, Multi-Award Winning, International Best Selling Author and international keynote speaker who teaches entrepreneurs to navigate mental awareness & health in a world of judgement and toxic masculinity, Gordon is Co-Owner of ‘momondays Waterloo’. He sits on several boards, is active in his church and volunteers with several charities. When not writing, podcasting or coaching he can be found focusing on his own spiritual & physical health alongside his wife of 30+ years and 3 teenage sons in Waterloo Ontario Canada!
After being introduced to the world of sales through the automotive industry, Gordon went on to work with several of the biggest names in the personal development world including Zig Zigler and Grant Cardone intentionally growing & developing his own coaching specialization. More recently, Gordon battled and continues to win the war of depression from severe burnout due to no self-care and has since completely reprioritized everything in his life.
Gordon’s personal development journey has already been well over 30+ years and includes coaching certification in multiple disciplines through Robbins/Madanes and others.